Sorry about the tiny photo at left, but it's the best I can do with a stolen Flickr image -- there seems to be some restriction in the code against re-sizing. Click the thumbnail for the original. And by the way, that's me front and center, with the hat and the "Support Love Not H8 - Repeal Prop. 8" sign. The rainbow flurry over my shoulder is from two flags that are souveneirs from the March on Washington in April, 1993, as was the t-shirt I wore. They've held up better than I have. Some of those marching were younger than my shirt.
Yesterday, as fires blazed out of control all around SoCal (but not here), at least 600 people gathered in my sleepy, conservative little town to protest the passage of Prop. 8. It was the largest demonstration of any kind I've ever seen here. At 10:30 am we gathered at City Hall, and about 200 marched down both sides of the main street to this park. There, many hundreds more joined us and we spread up and down the block in front of the local mission, on both sides of the street. At least half the passing cars responded to the "honk for love" signs, each honk eliciting cheers from everyone. We shouted and hollered the call-and-response "What do you want?" "EQUAL RIGHTS!" "When do you want it?" "NOW!" and "Gay, straight, black, white, marriage is an equal right!" and that sort of thing. Then we circled the town, a five-block long throng twice walking on freeway overpasses, where our signs and rainbow flags signaled more honks from the speeding travelers.
There was no opposition at all, except for a few flipped birds from passing cars, or mutters of "The election is over, you lost" from doorways we passed on our march. One woman, seated with her picture perfect hubby and 2.5 kids at a patio restaurant, smiled and responded, "It's not about hate, it's about FAITH!" Faith in what, I wanted to ask, but as they say, "The dogs bark, but the parade moves on."
Those were the exceptions. Nearly every reaction was positive. Even some of the passing cops (and they did patrol us repeatedly) honked, as did several city bus drivers. I was startled by a giant white SUV with "Homeland Security" in big official letters on the side which passed back and forth slowly a few times. "We're not terrorists, we're just queer!" we shouted. On its last pass, the SUV honked. Amazing. Clearly, the official presence wanted to protect US from ugliness, not the other way around.
At the town's one and only openly gay bar nearby, many gathered after the bulk of the group disbanded at 2pm. The bar offered a free shot to anyone who showed their sign. Among the women, the shot of choice was something called a "Slippery Nipple." Heavy on the Bailey's, it was, er... slippery. And hella sweet. I stuck with my Corona and chatted for about an hour. I had never visited the bar before, thinking it was a total boy's club. Yesterday, there were more women than men.
One couple told me they were running late and arrived at the park after the march had moved on, but a cop told them, "If you cut across to Chestnut Street, you can catch them." I may just have to change my mind about My Little Town.
A number of straight people marched with us, and there were many kids with homemade signs reading "I love my 2 moms" or "Why can't my auntie (or uncle, or big brother) get married?"
I've got news for the mutterers: The election may be over, but we haven't lost. Those kids give me hope.
PS: Found another Flickr image that let me use it. Me, in hat (natch) showing the cool rainbow on the other side of the sign. Hey, does this rainbow make me look fat?
AND ANOTHER THING: Interesting article on a potential US Constitutional challenge to Prop. 8 that just might fly in the federal courts. As a lawyer who doesn't trust her own kind, however, I see many nits that could be picked about the similarity of the precedent. The legal seas on this issue are largely uncharted. Hope someone tries the argument anyway.
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