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  • C.S. Lewis: "The Weight of Glory"

    C.S. Lewis: "The Weight of Glory"
    "I am trying to rip open THE INCONSOLABLE SECRET in each one of you -- the secret which hurts so much that you take your revenge on it by calling it names like Nostalgia and Romanticism and Adolescence."

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  • Wee Piggy and Superhero Tazzy
    Bless their poofy hearts.
  • Survivor Toyland
    Very bent, VERY funny! I always thought there was something a little off about G.I. Joe. With links to other toy hijinks.
  • Stuff On My Cat
    just plain silly
  • Custom Altered Books
    These make great wedding gifts or scrapbooks.
  • Project Rungay
    Two fabulously glamorous fags ripping the show they L-O-V-E to watch. Project Runway from a VERY gay perspective.
  • Jafa Girls
    These girls rock! Altered art, assemblage, found art, lots more.
  • Dr. Gloria Brame
    Thoughts and resources for those interested in consensual adult sexuality. Who isn't?
  • Rianna
    A professional woman of eclectic tastes. Laugh-out- loud funny and intelligent. Recipes too!
  • Altered Art
    Unique and custom altered art direct from artist.
  • Everything in Moderation, Including Moderation
    Pop Culture, Food and Chicago -- with a twist.
  • Everybody Knows
    Enjoy her daily reflections. Formerly Freshman 44.
  • Houston Bridges
    Just another pilgrim trying to make some progress. [his self-description. I'd say he's the big brother I had to wait 34 years to find.]
  • SF Mike
    Great photos and stories about San Francisco: its arts, politics and characters (the author among them). It makes me homesick.
  • Bats Left Throws Right
    Best blog I read.
  • Appetites
    A discriminating palate from New Orleans muses on food, recipies and restaurants.
  • Blondesense
    Beauty, brains, boobs . . . and a great sense of humor.
  • A Winding Road In An Urban Area
    smart, smart, smart, and oh, did I say smart?

The Fragile Industries Manifesto

  • Hammers
    Why the hammer logo? "Hammers" was my maternal grandmother's maiden name, and I like the matrilineal symbolism. My great-grandfather was a blacksmith, so there's that family history as well. I consider myself ready to undertake the Fragile Industry of rebuilding my life with that hammer. Rebuilding the Insconsolable Secret “that hurts so much that you take your revenge on it by calling it names like Nostalgia and Romanticism and Adolescence.” (C.S. Lewis.) In taking up this blog I raise the powerful tool of language, of exchanged ideas, of humor. I am readying other devices from my toolbox, rusty, disused. The hammer is an ironic symbol of freedom and new life, of encouragement to me. Take it up if you dare.

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Currently Featured On The Nightstand

  • Leonard J. Arrington: Brigham Young: American Moses

    Leonard J. Arrington: Brigham Young: American Moses
    I keep tossing this aside and coming back to it. I have several reading itches I need to scratch, like good plague and virus reading (I love a fun germ) and my trash thriller/mysteries, and 19th Century fiction, and historical accounts of Latter-Day Saints. I must clarify, I am an unafilliated Christian, neither Mormon-basher nor true believer. I find the fundamentals of Morman faith utterly unbelievable, not to say laughable, but my interest in religious history in general brings me back to Mormon studies again and again because it is historically accessible, unlike mainstream Christianity or Islam, the sources of which are lost in time. Brigham Young is the second-most influential figure in Mormon history next to Joseph Smith, the founder of the faith. I can turn to multiple sources for a historically-defensible biograph of Joseph Smith or the very origins of the LDS church. This book is the closest thing to an accurate history of Young, yet it was written by a devout Mormon. I feel great portions of Young's life in this work have been, if not whitewashed, at least granted enormous charitable impulse. Yet other works are so anti-Mormon in bias, such an obvious axe to grind, that I cannot believe them either. It's time for an outsider without agenda to write this biography. In the meantime, I continue to muddle through.

  • Tami Hoag: Kill the Messenger

    Tami Hoag: Kill the Messenger
    OK, so I need some trash reading, and I like mysteries and thrillers to cleanse the palate between Deep Works. I have my favorites, like Michael Connelly, who has never written a bad book. Tami Hoag, judging by this, one of her latest, may become another. Like Connelly, she writes a completely undemanding page turner that is more than a dumb police procedural or woman-in-peril formula. It ain't literature, but this was fun.

  • Chris Ware: Jimmy Corrigan: The Smartest Kid on Earth

    Chris Ware: Jimmy Corrigan: The Smartest Kid on Earth
    A perennial favorite, and one I re-read every year or so. This incredible, multilayered, seemingly inscrutable yet abundantly accessible work changed my mind about the graphic novel. This is a story that could not be told in words alone. His artwork is not standard overblown comic book fare at all; it is precise and architectural. Ware's artistry is not only visual, it is historical, narrative, deeply psychological and completely unique. He plays on the tropes of the old "comix" and the hyperbole of the back-page ads for X-Ray Specs, blends that with the voice of innocence and amazement of the Chicago Exposition of 1893, and then, in a perfect hat trick, adds our current post-modern nihilist, isolated and lonely existence of the 21st century to bring it home. I cannot describe the plot, because the plot, as cathartic as it is, is only one vehicle for what you experience. Be prepared to be confused and overwhelmed and moved to tears in this journey from son to father to generations past.

  • Dorothy Dunnett: The Game of Kings (Lymond Chronicles, 1)

    Dorothy Dunnett: The Game of Kings (Lymond Chronicles, 1)
    It's about time for me to begin my decennial re-reading of the Lymond Chronicles. I've actually read this, the first volume of the six, so many times that I've worn out two paperback versions. I make it all the way through all six every ten years at least. This series is a splendid addition to any Desert Island Reading List. If you like your heroes tortured, your buckles swashed with erudition, romances long on intellect yet short on the formulaic ripping of bodices, and sagas so sweeping all beaches would be free of sand, this is your meat. Recommended companion: The Dorothy Dunnet Companion Vol. I & II -- a concordance for this and Niccolo, her other series, which I find less compelling. Yes, she's such a reference-intense, not to say dense, writer that two volumes of clarification ARE necessary.

  • Bill Bryson: A Short History of Nearly Everything

    Bill Bryson: A Short History of Nearly Everything
    I'm working my way through this slowly, no reflection on my fascination with the scientific subject matter or my perennial delight with the author's superb diction. My pace is restrained only because I want to enjoy this at length. Bryson is one of my favorite wordsmiths, but in this new context, he not only entertains but enlightens. I'm a closet science geek, but some areas have escaped my enthusiasm until this book. I mean, geology, really. Now it's sexy.

  • Charlotte Brontë: Jane Eyre (Penguin Classics)

    Charlotte Brontë: Jane Eyre (Penguin Classics)
    This has a post all its own. A brilliant, courageous work, shamefully relegated to the "gothic" or "romantic" pile. This is the work that started a thousand imitators, all of which pale in comparison to the language, the intelligence, and the iconoclastic bravery of the original.

Introducing: Friday Opera Corner

100_0775 And now, a new, semi-regular, half-baked, mostly humorous feature for FI Devoted Readers:

FRIDAY OPERA CORNER

Do you want to be an Opera Snob like me, but don't have the money for the tickets and fancy dresses?  Don't own a tuxedo?  Most of all, you can't stay awake through the overture, much less 4 agonizing hours waiting for the soprano to die?  Learn the classics the EZ Way, without the fuss, muss, and heartbreak of an aching butt!

Each week, I will bring you an Unbreakable Opera Rule, a cute factoid to drop into conversation that will earn you the appreciative smiles of other Opera Snobs.  This week, courtesy of Bill B, this observation:

Carmen is the only decent opera by Bizet.

Now, I'll show you how to use it:

"He's such a fool.  After he saw Carmen, he ran out and bought all the other Bizet operas!" (pause for laughter)

"I saw a new title in the catalogue, "Bizet's Great Operas!"  (pause for queries, raised eybrows) "It only had one disc!"

... and so on.  No, it's not funny to you and me, but Opera Snobs don't get a lot of humor, so they'll eat this stuff up.  Trust me, it's funnier than watching 300 pounds of singer take 348 minutes to die, singing lustily the entire time.

Finally, I offer an entertaining opera clip, which you can watch from the comfort of your own home, while wearing whatever you want (or not wearing what you don't want).  Feel free to get up and move, cough, sing along, or rustle noisy food wrappers -- because any one of these actions during a live performance would garner Glares Of Death from stuffy Opera House patrons.

Without Further Ado: Victor Borge, A Mozart Opera.  A classic bit from a loveable musical teacher.  This will introduce you to the primary operatic traditions.  When I get the bugs out of my blog/youtube interface, I can bring it to you directly.  I've spent 90 minutes trying to figure it out and the hell with it.  You'll just have to click the link below.  It's not like it costs you anything, unlike a Real Opera Experience.  Oh, and this clip is in English, unlike most operas, yet is subtitled in Danish for no discernible reason.  No one knows but Mozart, and he's dead.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=KZ4ZNbiO15M

 

 

The Woman Who Mistook Her Brain For A Dog

Dog brain Lazarus walks -- I'm yet again clearing out the Return Of The Collyer Brothers around the house, particularly in my studio.  When it’s tamed in there, I may unearth all the constituent parts of several projects languishing since March and finish them.  Two art books, one altered book, and the long-awaited vintage family album of photos taken between the Civil War and 1900.  This result is the happy outcome of some brain science I've been reading about.  The Brain That Changes Itself by Norman Doidge describes the revolutionary advances in the field of neuroplasticity. It's a great follow-up to all the Oliver Sacks books about "funny brains" I've gobbled since the first of the year.

Basically, neuroplasticity is how the brain can and does physically wire and re-wire itself, adapting to brain injury, using unused territory, making new and breaking old connections.  Old school neurology thought that various skills were locked into specific sites, and while the normal brain has its preferences, its physiology is sufficiently plastic, i.e. changeable, to adapt. Electrical activity in the neurons and its chemical environment work symbiotically.  Brain chemistry reinforces bad or good neuronal associations, from fetishes and addictions to stoic strengths.  We all sorta knew this instinctively, but brain scans and other recent advances in mapping show just how dramatically this theory plays out. The useful part is knowing how to train or re-train brains, impaired or otherwise.  Unwittingly, I've served as my own lab rat, or lab dog, as it were, over the last few years.

For me, 2003-2004 were such emotionally ghastly years that it bent my brain, more than it was already bent, which was considerably.  In the midst of the worst psychic pain of my life, I was committed to tasks that all involved organization, planning, creating (or trying to create) order out of chaos: house remodeling with limited funds, sorting and packing acres of possessions for three separate moves, the logistics of divorce and selling a house, etc.  I also embarked obsessively on physical self-improvement.  It just so happened that the accompanying brain chemistry and emotions were agonizing, so the payoff was more misery for completing these tasks.  (If they ever got finished ... I'm still cleaning up messes from 5 years ago.)  In effect, I was giving myself a mental training consisting of "good dog, here’s your whipping, and NO biscuit."  Like that beaten dog, my badly trained brain then whimpered and trembled when presented with any similar job -- whether actual physical clutter, attending to my diet and exercise, more abstract business or financial organization, or bringing any, ANY, plan to completion.  I thought that my mental abilities for these things, marginal at best, had become permanently lost, like speech for a stroke victim.

Dogbrain_flowchart_preview Well, neuroplasticity studies have shown hope for mistreated dogs and aphasiatics. "Neurons that fire together wire together," even damaged ones, and improvement can appear with astonishing rapidity when specially designed exercises are given to autistics, ADD's, OCD's, and brain injury patients, especially via computer.  I found a curative exercise in the unlikely and unexpected form of a computer game.  I normally avoid them, but I played "Hell's Kitchen" once and LURVED it so much that I bought it and played for 30-60 minutes every day for the past couple of weeks.  The game is idiotic on the surface.  It's based on the cooking reality show, where contestants run a restaurant under a tyrannical chef and brutal time constraints -- juggling customers, cooking, prioritizing service and preparation tasks.  The game didn't teach me knife skills or recipes, but as I got good at it, I was training, with positive rewards for completion, my ability to break down chaos into manageable tasks in an orderly fashion.  I found I had better mental energy all day if I played the game for about half an hour first thing in the morning.

 Within a week, I was able to start clearing clutter for short periods without panic attacks, and handled other small but long delayed jobs that formerly left me bedridden just to contemplate.  I made the connection between game and increased functionality only a couple of days ago, and it's undeniable.  Compared to less bent brains, I'm barely crawling, but I continue to improve and feel at no risk of overtraining and ending up as anal as Martha Stewart.  I plan to treat my beaten dog of a brain better in the future -- "Good dog, THREE biscuits!"

What confounds me, now that I’ve experienced a full cycle of neuroplasticity in action, is how some people facing even more agonizing psychic and work/life demands do not end up crippled.  I have a friend who endured two solid years of unimaginable emotional wreckage and adversity, yet she soldiers on, a little shaky, but intact.  I started with less skill and worse brain chemistry, I know, and maybe her coping abilities were just too hard-wired to break.  In other words, her dog could survive without biscuits for a while.  A close relation also had a full-life catastrophic meltdown, and very publicly, to boot.  I’m sure he has private scars, but he’s still in the game. Some folks have neuronal wiring as resilient under stress as a pit bull; fortunately, these friends are much less likely to bite.  

How’s your dog doing these days? Sit, Ubu, sit.

PS: It's amazing how many hits my blog gets through Google searches for "Collyer Brothers."  Occasionally, someone leaves an anguished comment about the effects of compulsive cluttering and hoarding.  There's not much out there to read -- it's a hidden illness by its nature until exposed by a dramatic denoument, as with the Collyer Brothers.  My version is mild and the improvement merely anecdotal, but suggestive.  Perhaps more serious cases could benefit from similar neural calisthenics.  If a neuroplasticity researcher stumbles across this account, I urge this for your next grant application.  It could be an interesting study.

Garfield Minus Garfield = Kafka

My_life_story Accidental art at its finest: the depths of the human psyche are revealed, like a lost masterpiece emerging from under layers of graffiti, by removing that irritating non-cat Garfield from the panels of the daily comic bearing his name.  Garfield Minus Garfield is the art restoration in question, and though its creator is anonymous and leaves no email link, s/he has set forth the manifesto of the site with precision: 

"Who would have guessed that when you remove Garfield from the Garfield comic strips, the result is an even better comic about schizophrenia, bipolor disorder, and the empty desperation of modern life? Friends, meet Jon Arbuckle. Let’s laugh and learn with him on a journey deep into the tortured mind of an isolated young everyman as he fights a losing battle against lonliness and methamphetamine addiction in a quiet American suburb."
I can relate.
Here's another treat from the G-G files: a telling portrait of the nature of complaint: The_nature_of_complaint_part_ii
                                                                                                                  Thanks to Houston for passing on this gem.

She Lives! She Lives!

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/science/nature/7149569.stm

Life imitates Art imitates Truth, etc., ad nauseum.  Thanks to Adrianne for finding evidence of divine rodentia in our dull existence.  Were I not engaged in the exercize of filial duty, I would be off to New Guinea as we speak.

Why I Wake Up Early (thanks, Houston)

CSI: Bakersfield-By-The-Sea

Deadanimal_1 So Monday, after my button-induced meltdown, I took a restorative, life-affirming walk on the beach.  Lately I'm making a point of including this luxury in my routine.  All those online dating profiles claim to enjoy seaside strolls, a lot of people between the Left and Right Coasts spend fortunes annually to feel sand between their toes, and here I am growing fungus indoors while a beautiful beach is literally paces away.

This is complicated by the fact that Mr. Sun is not my friend.  I avoid direct photon exposure diligently.  It's not just the wrinkle/skin cancer issue, although my complexion is the color of mayonnaise and as prone to spoilage in hot sunlight.  Even with the SPF 8000 I dab on daily, I have never enjoyed the sensation of anything stronger than the most watery winter sun on skin.  Accordingly, I make my beachside pilgrimages at dawn or dusk, or wearing protective gear that looks like the Nomex suit that Woody Allen's LA friend wore in "Annie Hall," if you remember that scene. 

So there I am, covered in hats and sunglasses and shawls, breathing the iodine tang of the kelp and salt, among distantly scatttered midweek, midday loafers, fishers, dog walkers and fellow perambulators.  I watch the silly sandpipers and scuttling crabs on the rock jetties.  My routine is to  walk one way to the pier along the waterline, then back along the high tide wrack line, if the water is out.  That way, I can find more interesting STUFF to hoard and hopefully use in a nature or rust assembly.  I only allow myself one object at a time to keep my STUFF mania in check.  The pickings are usually slim and most of the time I return empty handed.

Some beaches in the Carribean and Florida Keys are renowned for a profusion of perfect shells.  Some turn out amazing, complicated sculptural driftwood.  There's a tiny, secluded beach near Carmel just down the coast from a Gold-Rush-era dump that is regularly covered with what appear to be jewels -- beach glass from all the old bottles after a century of water and sand erosion.  It's spectacular.

Here in Bakersfield by the Sea, we get sand, beer cans, cigarette butts, very boring pebbles, kelp remnants and the occasional waterlogged Hello Kitty band-aid.  And blots of oil-drilling spillage that make a pair of crusty beach flip-flops mandatory unless you want to turn into the tar baby.  Ah, nature.  Monday, I had found nothing of interest and was returning across the dry, hot stretch in front of my lane, when something sticking from the sand caught my eye.  A deep umber, varigated, triangular flap about a foot across the base and half again as tall, curled over at the top like a jester's cap.  Driftwood, I thought, and bent to look at it's peculiar texture.

The smell hit me first.  I suddenly remembered an ill-advised breakfast choice in London years ago.  Kippers, an acquired taste.  Oily, rotten, fishy.  Then I noticed that it was really quite embedded, and definitely not wood.  I grabbed a piece of legitimate driftwood and prodded gingerly around  the base.  Whatever was down there was far broader beneath the surface, and within a few inches I saw the telltale boiling rice of maggots.  EWWW.  There was a great expanse of dead marine something that seemed to extend for quite some distance, with only the tip revealed.  Dead whale iceberg.  Well, maybe not whale, but porpoise or shark or adult seal.  Maybe a small sea lion.  How did something so large it become so deeply buried so far up the sand?

Now I love reading about forensics and watching CSI (only the original, the knock offs are shite), but my fieldwork has been limited to identifying the rodent and avian corpses brought in by the cats.  I was discouraged from further investigation by the smell and the overall ick factor.  I had also forgotten to pack my shovel and yellow crime scene tape.  Still, the possibility that some unattended child or dog could have far too much fun unearthing the beast disturbed me.  I tossed the dispaced sand back.

I looked through the Government section of the phone book when I got home, certain that a coastal town or county would have some division charged with clearing waterfront carnage.  Nothing looked close, so I punted and called City Hall Information.  They've come through before and are unfailingly pleasant as they slice through layers of voice mail menu hell.  I was referred to Animal Control, and the staffer there said that yes, they dealt with dead animal carcasses.  "Dog or cat?" she asked.  Think wetter and a whole lot bigger, I said. "We don't deal with any marine life," she said emphatically.  I reminded her that life had, like Elvis, left the building, but she had already hung up.  I called the Parks Department, but my beach is not THEIR beach, they informed me.  I called county and city offices at random.  No one gave a shit about the late lamented creature or the potential health hazards created by its partial interment.  I called City Hall back and explained the situation.  Again, brisk bright and cheerful help came through.  She warned me that she would put me on hold while she did the detective work on the other line.

I went back to sorting buttons while "Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head" segued into an uptempo variant of "Caravan" on Muzak.  Ten minutes later, my ace at City Hall was back.  She had gone up the chain of authority all the way to the California Coastal Commission.  My beast had already been reported five days before, and it was "in process."  What does that mean?  She laughed ruefully.  "You're not going to believe it, but they have to determine cause of death before they can move it, and the state necrospsy [look it up] specialist is very busy lately."  I remembered that in the last few weeks, not one but two blue whales, big enough to swallow boatloads of hapless Jonahs, had drifted ashore, dead as doornails and stinking to high heaven.  Oddly, both ended up on beaches within a few miles of mine.

This morning, the pathetic flipper still thrusts vainly at the sky, the edges a little more ragged, but just as securely lodged.  I suppose dogs and kids are smarter or more oblivious than I thought.  And the Coastal Commission sits behind a desk somewhere filling out more forms, environmental impact reports, and funding requests to study the problem.  Hey guys, here's the shovel, what's your hurry.

In the meantime, I've figured out that the shores of Bakersfield-by-the-sea may not specialize in glittering treasures, but we've got the dead sea mammal market cornered.   Let's alert the Tourist Bureau and see what kind of marketing spin they can put on this!

That's COLD, Man ...

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Shopping with Fragile Industries

I had half an hour to kill, and decided it's time for a new feature on Fragile Industries.  I bring you the weird and the wonderful, or at least the purchaseable, from around the Web.  Forget Tim Gunn's Guide To Style, I gotcher style right here.  Home decor?  Leave it to me.  That anniversary gift for Mom and Dad?  Just ask Fragile Industries.   I will regularly (well, I don't do ANYTHING regularly, but maybe now and then) offer my three most recent most favoritest retail opportunities.  Starting ...

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1. My recent adventures with spammers left a bad taste in my mouth, but nothing as bad as the alleged meat product celebrated here.  If you like to Spamalot (just leave my email alone, please):

http://www.spamgift.com/

Featured item: Spam bobble head.  Think it's painted in China?  It still couldn't be as toxic as the real thing.

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2. Perhaps you prefer your kitch to be out of the kitchen and into the surf.  Your mantra is "Book 'im, Danno."  Unlike most of humanity, a ukelele is music to your ears.  Then garb yourself with these eye-gouge-worthy originals:

http://www.thehanashirtco.com/?p=primo_shirts

Featured item: Not only will the background cause pain even for the color-blind, there's the Guaranteed Tim Gunn Disapproved Tiki! I give you the 50s Way Bad Tiki Man Vintage Hawaiian Shirt:624

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3. Turning a leaf to the literary, are you a Gold Bug?  Do you spend your time ravin' about The Raven?  Did you leave your Telltale Heart in Baltimore?  Sheer Poe-etry here:

http://www.poemuseum.org/online_store/online_store.html

Featured item: This fully poe-seable "Li'l Edgar" looks alarmingly like Robert Goulet!Lilpoe 

This Isn't Porn, I Swear . . .

So here it is New Year's Eve, 4:30 pm, and I'm toggling between my Google Image Searches of Daniel Craig (mmmmm.... definitely a tie with the immortal Sean Connery for Sexiest Bond Of All Time):

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Fit lad, isn't he?

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Sometimes a gun is just a gun . . . right.

and this amazing photo spread of Christina Aguilera doing Marilyn Monroe ... not doing, doing, just imitating, well ... oh hell, just look at it:

Marilynxtina

It only proves that peroxide and bare skin does not a Marilyn make, but as eye candy, I don't mind junk food.

Is this a sad cry for help?  That's the thing about being bisexual and dateless on New Year's Eve.  It just means that the list of hotties who didn't ask you out is twice as long.  Hey, I'm not whining.  God, imagine having to talk to Ms. Xtina.  Daniel I'd listen to, with the hot accent, as long as he was naked. So this is strictly fantasy.  I'm probably not even going to make it to midnight.  That's the thing about being bisexual and A Woman Of A Certain Age.  My schedule is now diurnal, a Big Change from my former nocturnal vampire habits.  Asleep by 10, up by 6 -- of my own free will.  Dunno why.  Just shifted suddenly when I moved.  It's interesting seeing dawn at the beginning of the day, instead of bedtime.

Anyway, I wish you all a merry night of lobster, champagne, festivity, long kisses at the witching hour, all scripted by Noel Coward.  If not that, how about a cozy lounge with a warm purring cat in your lap, and a feeling of being at peace with the world and the world with you?  I must be getting old.  'Cause that's where I am right now, and that's OK by me.  In a little bit, I'm introducing Mom to one of my favorite movies, Groundhog Day, and then some cocoa and bed.  By 10.  A. Perfect. New. Year's. Eve.

Belated Zen

Pathetic_tree It happens every Christmas.  You make your list, check it twice, you're too frazzled to care who's naughty or nice.  Everyone gathers around the tree, and too late you realize that Someone Very Special was left off the list.

And So...

For Riannan, who seems to enjoy my forwarded images of albino animals, a double treat of birds minus melanin.  So sorry. 

One is awe-inspiringly beautiful: http://www.pbase.com/arjunrc/image/42614717

One looks adorably silly without his tuxedo: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/2572205.stm

Post-Christmas Hangover

We did virtually nothing yesterday except eat leftovers (yams just got better and better) and field calls from our far-flung family all day. Christmas Eve we cooked a bit, dressed nicely, and spent a relaxed potluck evening with friends and a lovely service, with one moment of life-threatening drama.  Mom is now on oxygen therapy 24/7.  At home, she has an enormous machine rumbling in the corner connected to a 50+ foot cord, and for travel, a little Buck Rodgers tank good for 4 hours.  It was good of her, and good for her, to get out and share the singing and praise and uncanny niceness of this congregation.  Midway through the service, candles were brought out for each of the congregation to light, the overheads went out, and we were invited to think of a prayer for someone we lost in the past year, then extinguish the candle in the baptismal font as we thought of what we could do to honor that person, a goodness in the name and manner of the missing one.  I immediately thought of Roo and his belly rubs.  I could set up a belly rub booth somewhere, everyone needs a good belly rub from time to time, but it could be misconstrued ... at about that time in my mental meanderings, I realized that Mom had removed herself and her tank to the furthest corner of the room. 

Right.  Open Flames.  Oxygen.  NOT a good mix.  No conflagration ensued, but Mom was terrified until the last candle was snuffed.

So the day after Christmas, we are both shuffling around as if we've run a marathon, tired and cranky.  We seem to be on each others nerves, we've withdrawn to our separate corners, and are acting especially reclusive.  She retreats to her biography of Louis  XIV and TV crime shows, I curl up with a warm cat, a warm computer, and a Very Cheap Read.  I see I come by my tendency to have the vapors naturally.  There is no reason for this flat feeling except the passing of a Christmas we barely noticed, but it's been a lifelong habit for us both.  Ech.  December 26 is simply a chemically flat day, mentally speaking.

I'll come back to dazzle you all when I'm more chipper.

Oh, but first, a few days ago I made a BBQ brisket, in the old Kansas City style, slow-cooked for ages, then pulled into shreds, sauced, and served on a toasted onion bun with a tangy cole slaw. I think this time I've perfected it.  Sweet but not too, spicy but not too (one must consider older, sensitive palates), just the right balance with a hint of smoke.  This is the BBQ I wanted all during my Route 66 trip, and was disapponted every time.  It could be baked overnight (there's probably a way to crockpot it).  Very easy, and the flavor... mmmm.

Now we have a big tupperware of the shredded beef and a tub 'o the best sauce in creation to last us until Thursday at least.  If we run out of buns, there's always burritos to be made.

Back to sulking.  I can't complain.  All the BBQ I want, and as I write, I have a sleeping cat at my side and another holding my legs to the sofa.  It's a treat to have a do-nothing day.

Recipe to come the next time Recipe Corner swings around.